The biggest thing that turns YOU off vs. turns YOU on is holding yourself back.
What Turns YOU Off – Avoid these Traps
When you hold back, hide, alter your needs, settle for less or compromise in order to get closer to what you want – you create resistance, your light dims, your vibration grows weak and you disconnect from flow. Think about it, these ways of being literally make you smaller and disconnected.
- Comparing yourself to others is a trap that you can fall into, because just after comparison is usually self-judgement or feeling like you have to be like someone else or even someone else in order to have what you want.
- Taking the right steps or doing what you “should” do is a sticky trap because it seems like a good idea! But putting your infinite self inside of “should-energy” puts your flame out not to mention takes the skip out of your step — you become mechanical — no one is attracted to a robot.
- Worrying and doubting yourself is the opposite of the main truth behind Awaken the True Power of you which is you are the center of your Universe, you have all the power.
What Turns YOU On – Do This Often
There’s nothing more attractive than you boldly, freely and unabashedly being YOU. Embracing who you are including your unique gifts, qualities and even quirks sends an affirming message to you and the Universe. Then when you express yourself and share yourself authentically your power of attraction kicks in.
- Say YES to what turns you on and doing what brings you joy even if it is seemingly unrelated to what you want – vibration is vibration.
- Embody gratitude by feeling it in your body and your being knowing you are a trust-fund child of the Universe.
- Connect with the flow by seeing and feeling what you want to create coming your way (no matter what is actually happening!). Feeling your desire fulfilled turns you on. Feel it and allow yourself to day dream, feeling more and more pleasure.
The Third Step to Awaken the True Power of YOU is “Express YOU”
“I am free to express myself and when I do, the entire Universe cooperates to fulfill my desires.”
How do you Express YOU?
Desire is directly linked to vibration and attraction. Your desires are your true self speaking to you. The more you know your desires and feel them being fulfilled you begin to embody your desire. Embodying your desire is the most powerful feminine-based practice you can master. When you embody your desire and your being, you send out signals every which way – thought becomes a servant to your desire.
- Speak your truth at all costs, even when it is uncomfortable
- Discover and share your gifts, choose a career or start a business that reflects you passion and purpose.
- Express the love in your heart, be willing to be vulnerable. Receive and feel love as often as possible, it is the highest vibration.
- Powerfully request what you need to support you and boldly be who you are in your family, among friends, in relationship, and in your community.
- Don’t let the world define you instead define who you are in the world. Literally let the world know who you are.
- Join a community of supportive peers and find a Mentor who can guide you to expand your gifts and flourish financially.
Do you have a gift to share with world but need support getting started? Schedule your Discovery Session with Cyndie HERE.
You are SO much more than what you “do” and the effort you put forth. But, when you’ve been taught to roll up your sleeves and work harder and smarter to get where you want to be, it seems like the only option. “The early bird gets the worm” and “No pain, no gain” are just a few of the sayings imbedded in the masculine-driven success model that has burnt us out and tethered our souls.
The masculine-driven success model is all about force, muscling through, doing more to get more, proving your worth – on and on and on. This model is also ego-driven which leads you to believe you’ve got to fight to win or go it alone which makes you question or fail to see the resources and support that are right at your finger tips.
Your true power is not in your “doing” it is in your “being”. Your true worth and power are limitless – but your ego leads you to believe otherwise.
The true power of YOU awakens as you become aware that you are a multidimensional being with more than an ego, you also have a mind, body, spirit and heart that quite often are waiting to be activated by your attention, intention and connection.
Activating the power of your “being” gives you access to the infinite and co-creative power of the Universe, it awakens your potential and increases your vibration. Without “doing” anything your “being” expands into the universe calling in the resources, people and events to support you in manifesting your desires – your being is what manifests and creates miracles.
How do you know when you’re your true power is not activated?
When you’re trapped inside of the ego’s doing, you ARE limited by your ability and the hours in your day. These are the key signs you are NOT accessing the true power of YOU:
- Stuck, not moving forward to facing the same challenges again and again
- Overdoing, over giving resulting in resentment, frustration and exhaustion
- Overwhelmed feeling like the universe is dumping on you rather than showering you with gifts
- Accepting less than you’re worth in regards to receiving the love and/or money you deserve
- Feeling like you’re spinning your wheels and/or caught in a re-occurring cycle
- Only feeling good when you’re accomplishing something, hard on yourself otherwise
When you live entrapped by your ego without accessing the fullness of your being, you tend to bump up against the same challenges again and again or experience cycles. You might gear up, work really hard and the burn out. Or, you might get really close to what will bring you happiness and then somehow sabotage it so without realizing it cause things to go back to the unsatisfying norm.
Your ego is the culprit telling you not to dream big but to do the practical thing and work really hard or just settle for what you already have. The ego has no interest in dreams being fulfilled as that would push you past it’s comfort zone into the unknown – the unknown and uncertainty is death the ego – AND – the fertile soil for manifesting desire.
How do you Activate the True Power of YOU?
Desire is the key to manifesting and it is the pureness of your desire that holds the magnetic energy of attraction. The ego kills desire by doubting it, judging it, settling for less, and directing you toward what is practical and realistic. It’s essential to know what desire feels like and listening and acting on your desire – this is a manifesting muscle you will want to build.
Does this mean action is no longer required? NO! Action that is inspired and aligned with your desire raises the emotional vibration of your being. Inspired action is essential to manifesting. When you’re “doing” is in service of your “being” (masculine side in service of your feminine side) you are unstoppable. Working hard for the sake of working hard until burnout is depletes your energy and lowers your emotional vibration.
The Second Step to Awaken the True Power of YOU is “Activate YOU”
There are Two Levels of Activation
The first level of Activation is to Activate the Centers of Your Being with the Chakras and the Feminine Mastery Archetypes which is our focus here. The second level of Activation is to Activate your desires and live in alignment with your Power Centers, which we teach in our Feminine Mastery Programs.
Dragonfly – Your Spirit and Power to Enlighten
Hummingbird – Your Heart and Power to Love
Honeybee – Your Mind and Power to Create
Butterfly – Your Body and Power to Transform
Chameleon – Your Ego and Power to Change
Listen Below and Activate YOU
“I am a multidimensional being with unlimited power to manifest my desires.”
Keep the Power Centers of YOU activated and aligned by including this Mantra and Activation Recording in your daily practice. When you begin to experience the signs of being entrapped by your “doing” ego self, take a break and Re-Activate. To embody ALL of YOU is where your true power to manifest resides. Activation is essential to embodiment of your true being which is the secret sauce of Feminine Mastery and Awakening the true power of YOU.
Have you ever heard the saying, “No matter where you go, there you are?” It’s a playful way of reminding you that you are always the source of what you’re creating and experiencing.
When things aren’t going so well it’s natural to want to be somewhere else or even be “someone” else – you know like those people who seem to have “it” all figured out.
WAIT! PAUSE and REWIND to the time before you realized things were not going the way you would like such as the love or money not showing up, the job not coming through or even the happiness or joy that you just can’t seem to grasp.
At some point prior to experiencing what you DON’T WANT you were undoubtedly hooked by your ego into a cycle of fear and illusion or “disbelief” in yourself, causing you to doubt you have the power to manifest your desires and experience what you DO WANT. What causes undesired days to culminate into a life of unfulfilled dreams is you disconnecting from the most powerful source in the universe.
That all powerful source is YOU.
As Rumi so beautifully reminds us, you are the source of all you desire making you the most important person in the universe. YOU are your own universe as you are the center and point of creation of everything in your life. When your ego hooks you into self-doubt by questing your ability, your worth and whether or not you’re “doing enough” to deserve what you want – you literally unplug from YOU (your power center) and fall victim to your ego’s small…dark…false…version of you – then WAMP! Your light grows dim, your vibration lowers and your energy spirals into misalignment.
Everything in the universe is within you. Ask all from yourself. – Rumi
Misalignment is where many people live, it’s what I call gray matter. You know the sun is shining somewhere but when you’re stuck in the gray you lose sight of who you are and feel like a ship lost at sea in the fog – it can be very disorienting and then confusion sets in.
The first step to Awaken the True Power of YOU is to “Connect with YOU”
Daily Connection to YOU can be any practice that takes you within to your center point of inner connection such as meditation, yoga, time in nature, journaling, or even just quiet time to allowing yourself to be present, breathe and Connect with YOU. If your day starts with YOU then your day will be filled with YOU and attract experiences that are reflective of your desires as you become present, open, enlivened and vibrating clearly communicating what you want from a place of receptivity.
Listen below as I guide you to Connect with YOU.
“I am the Power Center of my Universe. I am the Source of ALL of my Desires. I am ALL Powerful.”
You can repeat this YOU Mantra daily incorporating it into your daily practice. The most important thing is to feel the truth and embody the truth as you read and repeat the mantra, let the mantra guide you to YOU. As you Connect with YOU on a daily basis you will begin to live from this powerful point of connection and receptivity. This is the foundation of Feminine Mastery and Awakening the true power of YOU.