Permission to be Extraordinary

empowered-womanToday I’m writing about something that is churning deep inside of me.

I’ve been noticing what women do to stay hidden and small. I’ve seen them struggle with comparing themselves to others rather than embrace their uniqueness. I watch women pour themselves into their passion but deny themselves the glory that comes from being who they are and reaching their potential.

Today, I’m giving us all permission to be extraordinary.

I was raised as my Dad’s second son, his last hope for another boy didn’t happen and after six births, Mom was clearly done.

I loved it! I loved watching him build things in his wood shop and dreaming of the things I could build too. Part of being Dad’s second son was to play sports which I also loved. I began playing girl’s softball at age 9 and can still remember the smell of my leather mitt and the feel of the threads of the softball as I threw girls out from center field to home plate.

As a girl, I gave myself permission to be a champion, to rise up and win! And as I came into young womanhood, I remember putting myself down to relate to my friends who struggled to find their confidence. I remember choosing a boyfriend over trying out for the varsity volleyball team because no one told me I could have both.

Today I saw my son pull back his brilliance and hide on the soccer field after making a goal that left all the parents in awe. His skills are far greater than his team mates and as team captain he pulled back to let his team mates shine rather than guiding them as the shooting star he is.

The women who participate in my programs and who I am blessed with mentoring are extraordinary women. I call them the women with the golden hearts as each was born with extraordinary gifts and the desire to make a difference. I see each and every one of them faced with this same defining moment where they can choose to become the shooting star they are or let the resistance of their magnificence steal their glory. It’s painful to watch those that I love pull back or disappear and with this pain I realize that I may still be thwarting my glory as well.

You and each of these is extraordinary now.

You, me and our extraordinary community of women are defining Feminine Mastery together! And it is together that we can rise up and shine!

If you hide, you give other women permission to hide.
If you shine, you give other woman permission to shine.

Which is it going to be?

I’m giving myself permission to be extraordinary! Will you join me and give yourself permission to be extraordinary too?

Will you post below and tell me if you are in? Also post your challenges and your dreams so I can support you and cheer you on. We are in this together.

Let’s shine and rise together! Let’s alter the entire course of history! Let’s redefine what’s possible for all women!

In awe of you, let’s do this.


Shift from Shopping to Transforming

I have a confession to make. I’m a little obsessed with the work I do. I love it so much that I’m always looking for that next tipping point that will lead women to breakthrough barriers and have even more success and happiness.

My obsession is also a super power, I literally wake up with new ideas and even specific intuitive messages for my clients. My wheels are always working and turning out what I call new distinctions to make the transformation I deliver bigger, brighter and better! Which means more love, happiness, freedom, passion and prosperity for you and all the women in my community.

I have to say what I’m about to share is a big one. It’s so close to all of us that it’s very hard to see. This new distinction reveals a common behavior nearly every woman loves is also a great detriment to her self-worth and personal power.

Discover if you are stuck in shopping for our dreams or truly transforming your life. You have the power to transform but this power can’t be accessed if you’re merely just shopping. It’s takes these powerful 3 Shifts to instantly access your power to transform yourself and your life.

I can’t wait to hear your thoughts on how you can shift your power to transform into high gear.

Tap into Summer Self-Lovin’ Magic

Each season holds an energy and a flow for us to drop into and when we do, our bodies and our being are SO happy!

Summer is hot, it’s sticky, it slows us down yet we usually don’t follow it’s lead and instead get frustrated with having to work, sweating on the way to an event or trying to juggle the kids being home from school, families visiting and all the other crazy things that happen in summer!

The Butterfly is the Feminine Mastery Archetype that you can draw from to embrace Summer Self-lovin’ and the natural rhythm of summer to turn your summer from chaos to absolute bliss!

Your Butterfly lives in your feminine center or lower sacral area in between your hips. Your Butterfly is your feminine pleasure center!!! By embodying your Butterfly you become Feminine Pleasure Central!

Watch this Video to see how you can Embrace your Butterfly and drop into the magic of Summer Lovin’ for more fun, pleasure, bliss, romance and maybe even manifesting a miracle while relaxing – how about that?

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Words That Transform Your Life

I first came to understand the power our words have a few years ago when I realized I have a gift for hearing whether a person is speaking from their ego OR from their true self. Usually the words of the ego and true self are all jumbled into the same sentence so over time I learned to recognize the specific words the ego uses so that I could guide people to shift into their power by shifting their words.

For example, whenever you hear yourself say the word “but” change it to “and” even if nothing follows but a pregnant pause. By simply changing this one word you will open up unseen power and possibility but it takes awareness and practice.

You’re about to learn 2 more really simple shifts you can make right now with the way you speak and the words you choose that can dramatically change how you feel, what and who you attract whether or people understand you and what you manifest.

Share the changes you see when you put this powerful tip to work for you!

Receive more pleasure

It’s the day before Valentines Day and as I tapped into my heart for the perfect message to send to the women in our Feminine Mastery community, the word pleasure came to me. Following this, I pulled a card from one of my favorite decks and I received the “Angel of Pleasure” card with the message “Take pleasure in the things you do”.

I received the card as an invitation to combine “doing” with “pleasure” which can also be looked at as “giving” and “receiving”. I realized that I hadn’t been taking time for life’s simple pleasures like grabbing my journal and having tea on my beach wall, or watching my son practice his soccer tricks, or breathing deep into my heart feeling the gratitude for all my blessings.

Receiving is a conscious act, it’s just that we’re more inclined to consciously give. Receiving is also a profound Feminine Mastery practice that leads you to in the moment joy and manifestation of your desires. Your desires run deep and they are your most powerful well of manifesting power.

Too much doing and giving without consciously receiving and more importantly receiving pleasure leaves us feeling hardened, edgy and sometimes even bitchy and resentful — definitely not in a place to manifest our desires let alone our dreams.

Don’t wait for pleasure to come to you! Receive pleasure now even in the little things you do. Put your pleasure first and become a pleasure seeker – and – pleasure receiver. In our Feminine Archetype system, pleasure and all that comes with it is held in your Butterfly who is insatiable. Your Butterfly represents your body and your feminine center, the space in your body between your hips as well as your sexual organs.

This is an invitation for you to take the time to receive more pleasure! Look at the sky and all the colors at sunset, breathe into happiness for simple pleasures, taste the delicious food you eat, allow yourself to become aroused, fill your moments with what brings you joy, embrace your freedom and celebrate with excitement for life and what’s possible!

Move your hips, connect with your Butterfly, move freely in your body and through life! Activate all your senses – smell, sight, touch, taste, sound and allow them to amplify and turn you on. Imagine the universe is your pleasure giver and ask for more! Feel your desire and allow it to manifest.

Post below, let me know how this pleasure experiment works for you!

The Feminine Mastery Guide to Thrive in 2016

Social_Media_03This year, 2016 holds an entirely new elevated vibration with exponential possibilities for your deepest desires to be fulfilled.


Because we’ve moved out of the ego-driven and masculine-centric paradigm where logic and linear thinking have prevailed and into the feminine-centric paradigm where love, truth, desire and co-creation are the foundation of this new reality. Use the following guide to thrive in 2016 and beyond. It will guide you to shift out of the old paradigm and access your Feminine Mastery for the deepest possible fulfillment and miraculous manifestation of your heart’s desires.

Stay Clear of These Hooks, Old Beliefs and Behaviors

  1. Responding, reacting or proving to the ego that you’re good enough, worthy or lovable. You are whole, complete and perfect as you are.Women have spent precious time, resources and money succumbing to the ego’s hooks telling you to fix, improve or better yourself “in order to” have love, wealth or success. Stay clear of this #1 Trap that robs women of their happiness, health and prosperity.
  2. The old belief that you have to “do it alone”. This limiting mindset has kept women isolated, competing or surviving out of the illusion that success, wealth or even true love are for a select few. Stay clear of these ingrained tendencies to react to this limiting false belief. This is a form of ego brainwashing and it’s just not true!!! Everything you desire is available to you and all women. Call on your higher self and feel into your heart for what’s possible and your natural ability to co-create vs. survive on your own.
  3. Judging your masculine or that part of you that did climb, compete and work hard for success. The tendency to judge any part of yourself will keep you fragmented and struggling. Your power is in embracing your masculine and your feminine. Accept, embrace and empower your action-oriented masculine self while also dropping into your juicy, loving and expressive feminine self. Embrace practices that allow you to follow your heart, invest in yourself and take bold action. This is true feminine power.

Embrace, Embody and Master These Feminine Principles and Practices

  1. Embrace wholism, meaning all parts of you and your being. The Divine Feminine’s purpose is to heal separation, judgment and unify the masculine and feminine for the benefit of all. This may seem lofty but I promise that when you begin to master this feminine principle by embracing your whole self, you will heal life-long issues, deep wounds and struggles. Access the power of your feminine heart to heal separation while embracing all of you. Without this practice you will feel torn and conflicted between your feminine self yearning for love and connection and your masculine self craving action and success. There is no conflict, there is no trade off. When you embrace all and receive all, you will attract and manifest the love, pleasure, success and prosperity your heart desires.
  2. Focus on your unique qualities and natural gifts. By discovering, cultivating and mastering your unique qualities and gifts, you emerge from the sea of sameness. Your greatest success, wealth and lasting fulfillment will come from you being who you are without editing, comparing and settling. Expansion and emergence are the Feminine Mastery practices that unleash your feminine essence, magnetism and turn your gifts into superpowers. No more boxes or checklists! You are here to boldly express who you are! I promise you will awaken yourself, your community and the world. You will have more energy and overflowing abundance than you can imagine.
  3. Shift from overuse of your thinking mind and the upper chakras (crown and third eye) and drop down into your heart, solar plexus and feminine center. Traditional spiritual practices coupled with women overusing and relying on their thinking self has left women awakened but ungrounded and in some cases more confused and less fulfilled. With the Feminine Mastery practice of embodiment (bringing your being into your body), women have access to their feminine wisdom and most potent manifesting power. Imagine yourself floating around the universe ungrounded vs. being grounded as the vibrant being you are, embodied with light and love doing your work on the planet. This is Feminine Mastery. You are awakened, enlivened and sharing your divine gifts while receiving pleasure, abundance and the glory of being the woman you’ve are destined to be.

Plant your seeds of desire and intention by posting them below!

Let our powerful Feminine Mastery community support you in making 2016 your year of miracles.

Feminine Mastery in the Movies!

It’s fascinating to me that Feminine Mastery is now in our culture and being presented in the movies! In this video blog, I share two movies that portray the challenges women face with balancing their masculine and feminine and what happens in each movie when the star steps into her Feminine Mastery. Watch all the way through as the movie is Spy with Melissa McCarthy and the second is The Intern with Anne Hathaway.

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Mastery Makes the Difference

What makes the difference between an ordinary day or an extraordinary day and an extraordinary life is the feminine mastery practice of drawing out your feminine essence, energy and power to bring it to your day, your life, your relationships and your business.

This video is about how I turned an ordinary day (about to turn into a stressful day) into an extraordinary experience with miraculous results.

Sometimes our greatest gift is so close to us that we don’t realize how valuable it is. What I realized today is that my ability to wake up feeling tired, look at my overly full calendar and still draw out the light and creative genius from my inner being – and – bring that to everything and everyone I encounter is ALL because of feminine mastery.
Each day you wake up with this same possibility but without knowing how to shift from doing and the ordinary to being and the extraordinary – one ordinary day turns into an ordinary life.
For those of you who watched the video to the end and have not yet benefited from a Discovery Session or Mentoring with me – I have a gift for you! It’s called Awaken Your Mastery — Click here to access it now!

Leave the Illusion to Live Your Dream

Leave the Illusion to Live your dream is not only one of my favorite topics but also the biggest secret to transforming women’s lives – and quickly. Many other approaches tend to guide people more successfully through the illusion rather than helping them to leave the illusion and immediately begin living their dream.

Below I share: What keeps you stuck in the illusion, the limitations of living there and how to leave the illusion so that you can finally have access to your power to vividly dream and manifest ALL of your desires.

Listen all the way through as there are keys to making this leap. After watching if you are experiencing the signs of living in the illusion, feel like you’ve been stuck in the illusion or that your life has been limited in any way, I invite you to schedule your breakthrough Discovery Session with me by clicking HERE.

Get ready to wake up in your dream!

Master Allowing to Manifest Your Dreams

The most important and potent feminine super powers you have is the practice of “Allowing.” When we’re not in the practice of allowing, we’re usually getting in our own way, exerting too much effort and slowing down the process of manifesting our dreams.Absence of allowing is a sign that you either don’t know or trust your true power to create and manifest any dream.

So watch below to learn how the practice of allowing helped me manifest yet another home of my dreams and how you can use this practice to manifest anything in your life or business.

If for whatever reason what you want most is NOT manifesting, there is likely a simple block that can be shifted, so schedule time with me below to discover what it is.

This is also the last Video with this backdrop as I’m moving to our beautiful new beach cottage this Friday!

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